By Aruj Sipra
“Any book that helps a child to form a habit of reading, to make reading one of his deep and continuing needs, is good for him.”
– Maya Angelou
When you think about Reading, what comes to your mind? For me, it’s more than just reading books, it is like opening a door to allow in more light. Reading is an important requirement for gaining wisdom and knowledge. Reading certainly helps to develop our power to imagine, broaden our intellectual horizon and helps us develop learning skills. Reading a written subject and developing an understanding of it is a skill that is cultivated over time. It helps to makes a personality more cultured.
Born into a family that loves reading and who are literally walking, talking encyclopedias, I acknowledge that reading is in my blood. It became a joke in the family that “if somebody wants to meet my father or uncles, he would probably need a full day to enjoy their company, not just few hours.” Why is that? You must be wondering! The reason is they are jam-packed with not just worldly knowledge but with lots of practical experiences in life and they all yearn for sharing them. One has to have a genuine excuse to leave early. I have been fortunate to be raised in a diverse environment where teaching and reading were important. My brother, who is just two years elder than me, is my inspiration when it comes to reading books. He started reading from a very young age, thanks to our grandfather, who instilled the love for reading in him. Whatever books he read from comics to Enid Blyton series to Alistair MacLean‘s books, he handed them over to me. At times it became a race between us to see who finished the book first! For those curious about the results, I made it second to the finish line, always.
The ability to read is a powerful tool, but a passion for reading is even more powerful. When we are young, our parents especially our mothers read us bed-time stories. In our case it was mostly my husband who told the same bed-time story to our son every night. Amazingly when my husband would change the sequence of story unknowingly or even knowingly, the two year old would immediately correct my husband to put the sequence right. It shows how a story had developed child’s sense of imagination and understanding just by listening and perceiving in such a fragile age.
As we grow older and enter school, our teachers read and through hearing their words, our imaginations go to work and transport us from where we are to a new place found in a book. Being a kindergarten teacher, I can say that by evolving a student’s passion for reading at an early age through enthusiastic reading, one can invite them to discover new concepts and experiences.
Home environment plays an important part in influencing their intellectual development and school learning. A great deal of research has been carried out on family environment and results have proved that children who do well in school come from families where parents, grandparents are involved in their education.
During my eight years of teaching experience, I always encouraged parents to be involved in childrens reading throughout their school years. By encouraging babies and young children to communicate, parents are laying the foundation for later reading success.
Make reading enjoyable
First of all, find a spot in your home for a family library. It can be a corner in a room with comfortable furniture, a bookshelf and adequate lighting will do wonders. A small collection of books can be stacked on the bookshelf. You can also put some magazines and newspapers on the table.
Reading role models
Most children want to be like their parents. They start mimicking them from a very young age. If they see parents visiting libraries, giving and receiving books as gifts, and borrowing and loaning books to friends, they will know their parents place a high value on reading.
Reading and stories as part of life
You should read books in front of the children ask them questions and also share stories you remember from your childhood. Tell them the names of your favourite books. Discuss ideas or themes within the stories. You can pause for a second while reading and wait for them to ask you ‘what will happen now’. Encourage interest in the story rather than just focusing on the mechanics of reading.
Make reading interesting and fun
Let yourself go while you are reading out loud. You can use lots of expression, in your voice and in your face and body too. You can also try different sound effects. They will either love it or tell you to calm down. When you spent time reading to toddlers, they will be much more likely to express themselves and relate to others in a healthy way.
Encourage creativity and imagination
Take “picture walks”. Help your child use the picture clues in reading and pictures to tell the story before reading. This would develop child’s imagination and expression spheres.
Make reading a priority
A short 10 minutes every night at bed time or an hour during the day, set a specific time for reading. The biggest motivator for children is often as simple as knowing that adults are rooting for their success.
Summers are upon us, so here are some practical suggestions you can implement everyday. You can’t implement all these suggestions with children of all ages, so use them wisely what is best for your child.
- Read to your child every day!
- Ask your child questions before, during, and after reading
- Let your child see you reading
- Have fun rhyming!
- Look for letters while out and about and around you
- Most of all, have fun together!
Once the child gets into the habit of reading books, he will not only be a better student, but a better person.
“I find television very educating. Every time somebody turns on the set, I go into the other room and read a book.”
– Groucho Marx
About the author:
Aruj Sipra is the community manager at MuslimMoms.ca
Are you a book-lover? How do you foster reading habits in your kids? Wed love to hear from you, as would other Muslim Moms on our forums.
Fariha
May 28, 2014 12:57 pmYou are right until they don’t see us loving and reading books they can’t be passionate about this either and setting a fixed time for reading every single day is must and kids look forward to it and it Strengthens the bond between parents and kids. While you can share your real life stories with them and this is the best time to be open to each other .My elder one wasn’t initially fond of reading inspite of the fact that I used to read him since was a toddler but since last summar he developed love of reading as I put him into reading classes in library .He is 9 year old now and loves to read big Nate, diary wimpy kid,Garfield ,pokemon ,bey blade series,i want him to read more of chapter books and non fiction too but he don’t like books with too many sentences and words on the pages rather like less text and more pictures ..though iam trying to encourage reading nonfiction with rich text ..any ideas regarding this would be appreciated. I do read to him real life stories of our prophets and sahaba’s the thing is if he have those fiction books around him he don’t want to read any other books just read them again and again :(.
JazakAllah for sharing your and your family’s love of learning and reading and for all nice tips 🙂
Fariha
May 28, 2014 2:32 pmA very useful and thought out article.just the tool I need to get my kids to read more!
Ayesha
May 28, 2014 4:43 pmInspiring! Earnest, and genuinely from the heart! Aruj is truly one who brings alive the pleasures and joys of reading !
Shahida Sipra
May 28, 2014 5:08 pmYour article is not only enlightening,it is interesting also.Your small anecdotes of childhood have added a strange kind of mystery to it and I would like to say that your winding up hints and tips to reading,has certainly made it more mature!Your passion really shines through and through-go ahead,keep writing and inspiring!:)))
Muneezah
May 28, 2014 6:32 pmA lovely article!! enjoyed it thoroughly! my kids love to read so much so that I have to pry the books away from them and tell them to go and play. I have to say it really developed from me. I read to them like crazy when young. As a result they read from a very young age. Parents are the key to children developing and interest in books and the younger they start the less effort is required to make them read!
Amna
May 28, 2014 11:03 pmJust the right article as summer begins and kids will have lots of time on hand to read. I like that the author emphasizes that reading is a pleasurable activity. as a librarian, i can attest to the fact that we aim to make a wide variety of material available, really get to know what interests the child before suggesting material and then welcome them with a smile. We offer story times for the little ones just stepping into the world of books, so they see reading as fun. Thank you for bringing alive the value and pleasure in reading! The trick is to never give up on a child just starting to explore the world of books..sooner or later, they will be hooked.
Ayyaz Ahmed Sipra
May 29, 2014 5:04 amKudos for emphasizing the importance of reading.It has become,sadly,a lost art losing out to the idiot box and any effort in promoting it is always welcome . Keep up the good work Aruj !
Siddiqa Sipra
May 29, 2014 2:21 pmBeing a family member I know your grand father encouraged my father to read who then read bedtime stories to my children. He also took them to the British Council at young ages (4 – 8) to enhance their reading. My husband too, is a voracious reader and always read to the our children.
My youngest daughter used to borrow a lot of books from her school library during her summer vacations and held competitions among the family members to see who would finish first. It really created a new incentive for all of us to read.
Finally, a line from your article: Encourage interest in the story rather than just focusing on the mechanics of reading – I really agree with this.
Amber Elahi
May 30, 2014 11:25 amits an excellent article simply love it 🙂
Farah
May 30, 2014 12:44 pmInsightful indeed your article is wonderful guide to parents.
Cyma
May 30, 2014 6:03 pmThe wiser teacher allows students to take risks because that is where miracles happen and dreams are realized! By reading your article brought back all the good memories of you as an excellent teacher who showed the world of wonder to my little girl :)at the age of 3…You are the very first teacher who sprouted the reading passion in Emaan’s mind which grew stronger with time. Your advice still resonates in my memory which helped me a great deal. I didn’t expect Emaan at the age of 7 to finish the series of Harry Potter and now at the age of 8 have finished reading so many classics…original version of David Copperfield,Tale of two cities and so many more. I was astounded! I owe this to you :).I wish you all the very best in life. Just loved your article.
Keep inspiring everyone out there!
Naureen Khalid
June 1, 2014 1:06 amA very interesting article. Nice writing again Aruj. Keep it up.
Somia
June 1, 2014 4:01 amA well written article !! I also strongly believe that with parents support and help children will grow up to become excellent readers with strong writting skills. Parents don’t need special skills for that, just 15 minutes a day will make a difference. A very useful and inspiring article.
Thanks for sharing with us Aruj 🙂
Sahar Faheem
June 4, 2014 10:32 amStunning Effort. Your writing takes the reader in his imagination. Wow!
Izzah
June 9, 2014 12:30 pmAn inspiring article Aruj! Thank you 🙂
maryam
March 21, 2015 12:30 pmVery well written aruj. Excellent article. At our first ptm you asked me to read to eshaal and get her story books. Time has passed and now she’s 11 mashaAllah and she loves loves loves to read. Thanks to you and your advices. Thanks to the wonderful Base you built for your students they now stand tall and proud. Thanks once again for being you. 🙂